hï flkl= fndrejla lshkjdo hkak myiqfjka y÷kd.; yels l%u

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hï flkl= fndrejla lshkjdo hkak myiqfjka y÷kd.; yels l%u

wms fldhs;rï we;a; lsh, ysf;k úÈyg fndrejla lsõj;a wfma uqyqfKa bßhõ" lgy? md,kh jk wdldrh wd§ foaj,a ksid wms fndrejlao we;a;lao lshkafk lsh,d y÷kd .kak mq¿jka fjk fj,dj,a ;sfhkjd' úfYaI{hka iy ufkda úoHd{hka mjik wdldrhg fndrejla yiqlr .ekSfï Wml%uh ;uhs isrere NdIdj tfyu;a ke;akï body language tl .ek wjOdkh fhduq lsÍu' ta ksid wms wo fy< ryia ;=<ska Tng tl tlaflkdf. fndrej,g yiq fjkafk ke;=j flfkla we;a;o fndreo lshkafka lsh,d y÷kd.kak mq¿jka Wml%u lsysmhla lsh,d fokjd'

 

01' l;d lrk w;r;=r kej;Sï isÿ lrk m%udKh .ek wjOdkh fhduq lrkak

flfkla l;d lrk w;r;=r iefrka ief¾ ;ekska ;ek" kj;a; kj;a; l;d lrkjd kï fndfydaúg ta Tyq fndrejla lshk ksid fjkak mq¿jka' wd''" ïïïï…"uka lsõfõ'' jf.a foaj,a lshñka läka lv kj;ajñka l;d lrkjd kï fyda tjeks kej;Sï" f.dvla isÿ lrkjd kï ta Tyq fndrejla ys; ys; lshk ksid iy ta fndrej Tyqg blaukska .<md .kak neß ksihs'

02' uqyqfKa bßhõ mj;sk ld, mrdih .ek wjOdkh fhduq lrkak

flfkl= uqyqfKka m%ldY lrk úg ´kEjg jvd fj,djla tlu bßhõj uqyqfKka fmkajñka isákjd kï" wksjd¾fhkau th jHdc rÛmEula' we;a; msú;=re yeÛSula uqyqfKa idudkHfhka mj;skafka ;;amr 5la muKhs' ;;amr 10la fyda Bg jvd ld,hla tlu bßhõfjka mj;skjd kï th is;du;d lrk fohla ñi Tjqkaf.a isf;a we;s jQ we;a; yeÛSï fkdfõ' WodyrKhla úÈhg is;kak" Tn Tng i;=gq ys;=k wdrxÑhla ;j flfkl=g mjik úg Tjqka thg i;=g m< lsÍug weia f,dl= lr f,dl= yskdjla iuÛ mqÿuhg m;ajQ njla‌ fmkajkjd kï iy tu bßhõju fjkila ke;sj ;;amr 10la‌ fyda Bg jeä ld,hla uqyqfKa /£ ;sfnkjd kï' Tjqkag Tn .ek i;=glg jvd th Tjqka jHdc f,i fmkajk bßhõjla nj u;l ;nd .kak'

03' jpk iy yeÛSï ms<sn| ie,ls,su;a fjkak

úoHd{hka mjik wdldrhg jpkj,g jvd blaukska wfma uqyqfKka yeÛSï m<fjkjd' WodyrKhla úÈyg" flkl= ;uka ;ryska nj mjid ;;amrhlska fyda follska muKla uqyqfKka ;ry nj fmkajkjd kï" Tyq we;af;kau ;ryska fkdfjhs' kuq;a Tyq bkafka ;ryska nj láka lshkakg l,ska uqyqfKka tu ;ry fmkajkjd kï Tyq we;af;kau ;ryska' fï wkqj Tn wjOdkh fhduq l< hq;af;a hï fohla .ek flfkl=f.a jpk iy uqyqfKka fmkaùu yeÛSï ms<sn|jhs' jpkj,g;a l,ska Tyqf.a tu jpk j,ska mjik foa uqyqfKka fmkajkjd kï th i;Hla' kuq;a jpk mjid" miqj uqyqfKa yeÛSï we;s jkjd kï th jHdc tlla' kuq;a fufia jpk iy yeÛSï we;sùu w;r ;;amr 1" 2la muK mr;rhla we;s ksid tajd y÷kd .ekSug kï Tfí ksÍlaIK yelshdj Wiia uÜgñka ;sìh hq;=hs'

04' yeÛSïj, f<ka.;=Ndjh msßlaikak

´kEu flfkl=g;a láka ´kEu fohla lshkak mq¿jka' kuq;a ta lshk foau uqyqKska fmkajk tl yßu wudrehs' fudlo fndfyda fofklag we;a; yeÛSï iy fndre yeÛSï w;r fjkila fkdfmfkk f,i tajd lsÍug wudrehs' Tn fyd¢ka okakd y÷kk whl= kï" Tjqka we;af;kau i;=fgka miqjk fj,djl iskdfik wdldrh iy i;=gla fkdue;sj kslka iskdfik wdldrh w;r fjkila Tng f;afrkjd we;s' WodyrKhla úÈhg" iskdfik úg láka muKla fkfjhs iskdfikafka' weia foflka mjd iskdfikjd' weia fol wi, /<s .ekafjk w;r weysneu bfíu my;a fjkjd' fï jf.a bßhõ ke;=j kslïu láka muKla iskdfikjd kï Tjqka ta we;af;kau i;=áka lrk yskdjla‌ fkdfjhs' fïl fï úÈygu wks;a yeÛSïj,g;a fmdÿhs' we;a; yeÛSïj, f<ka.;= njla .eí ù ;sfnkjd' kuq;a jHdc f,i i;=gla ÿlla fmkaùfï§ fï ;rï f<ka.;=Ndjhla‌ tys keye' Tjqkaf.a tu l%shdj yeÛSï úrys; l%shdjla f,i uqyqfKka wmsg y÷kd.kak mq¿jka'

05' tlu foa kej; kej; lSu

flfkl= fndrejla lshkjd y÷kd.kak ;j;a f,ais l%uhla ;uhs fï' tlu jdlH LKavh fyda tlu isÿùu" l;dj w;rueÈka kej; kej;;a lshkjd kï ta Tyq fndrejla lshk ksihs' fïl fjkafka" we;eï mqoa.,hkag Tjqkaf.a yeÛSï jpkj,g fmr<d .ekSug wmyiq ksihs' úfYaIfhkau ysf;a we;sjk ;s.eiau iy wúYajdih ksid Tjqka tlu foa lshñka th Tng;a ;ukag ta;a;= .kajd .ekSug W;aidy lrkjd' fï ksid flfkla kej; kej; lshk isoaêh fyda jdlHh fndrejla fjkak mq¿jka'

06' jpk f;dard .kakd wdldrh .ek ie,ls,su;a fjkak

Tn m%Yakhla wik úg" W;a;f¾ fok ;eke;a;d Tn m%Yakh weiq jpku Ndú; lr W;a;r fokjd kï ta Tyq fndrejla lshk ksihs' wms WodyrKhla úÈyg fufyu ys;uq' Tn wikjd “Tn ldgo l;d lr lr ysáfh@ ” lsh,d' t;fldg Tjqka fl<skau l;d lr lr isá mqoa.,hdf.a ku lshkake;=j “ux l;d lr lr ysáfh''” lsh,d W;a;rh mgka .kakjd kï ta lshkafka Tjqka hï fohla jika lrk ksid fyda hula Tjqkaf.a láka msg fõ hehs ìfhka isák ksihs' tfyu;a ke;akï m%Yakhla weiQ úg" Tjqka ms<s;=re fokjd fjkqjg kej; m%Yakhu m%;srdjh lrñka isákjd kï ta wksjd¾fhkau Tyq fyda weh fndrejla lshk ksihs' WodyrKhla úÈyg “Thd Bfha ? fldfyo ysáfha@” lsh,d wykfldg Tyq ms<s;=re úÈyg “ux Bfh ? fldfyo ysáfha''ux Bfha ? ysáfha f.or” wd§ f,i ms<s;=re fokjd kï" Tjqka tfia lrkafka wÆf;ka fndrejla is;Sug ld,h .ekSug lrk Wml%uhla f,ihs'

07' w;ska uqyqK lg jeiSu

fï ;uhs flfkla fndrejla lshkjd y÷kd.kak ;sfhk f,aisu l%uh' ta ;uhs flfkla l;d lrk úg jgmsg n,kjd kï" weia lrljñka l,amkd lrk nj fmkajkjd kï fyda w;ska lg jiñka l;d lrkjdkï ta Tjqka fndrejla lshk ksihs' flfkl= hula iÛjk úg" th ;ukaf. láka msg fõ hehs ìh ksid fuh bfíu we;sjk m%;sl%shdjla‌' fï jf.a bßhõ flfkla fmkajkjd kï Tn‍g y÷kd.kak mq¿jka Tjqka lshkafka fndrejla lsh,d'