m<uq yuqùu fmïj;=kag ;u Ôú;fha b;d jeo.;a wjia:djls' j¾;udkfha iudc udOH yryd wdrïN jk fndfyda fmï in|;dj, tlsfkld m%:u j;djg isheiska oel .kafka o m<uq yuqfõ§ h' fuu wjia:dfõ§ fofokd u isákafka fkdikaiqkaj úh yel' my; i|yka foaj,aj,ska Tfí fmïj;sh i;=gq lsÍfuka m%:u yuqùu rij;a yd wu;l fkdjk wjia:djla lr .ekSug Tng;a yelsh'

 

1' is;a weo.kakd l;dnyla

Ôjk iylre f,i fndfyda fokd fidhkafka fyd| ijka fokafkl= nj ienEh' kuq;a m%:u yuqùfï§ ;u fmïj;df.ka is;a weo.kakd l;dnyla fndfyda fmïj;shka n,dfmdfrd;a;= fõ' ukao Tjqka ta wjia:dfõ isákafka inflda,fhks' fï wjia:dfõ ;u fmïj;sh l;d lsÍug fmd,Ujk wdldrfha l;dnyla fmïj;d i;= úh hq;=h'

2' wjxlj ;u u;h bÈßm;a lsÍu

fndfyda fokd m<uq yuqfõ§ fmïj;sh lshk ishÆ fohg tlÛ nj ujdmdhs' kuq;a ienE Ôù;fha§ tfia fkdjk nj okakd ;reKshka n,dfmdfrd;a;= jkafka ;u fmïj;df.a wjxl woyihs' tneúka m<uq yuqùfï§ mjd ´kEu fohla ms<sn| ;u u;h fl<skau bÈßm;a lsÍug Tng yelsúh hq;=hs' fuh ;u fmïj;sh bÈßfha Tfí fm!reI;ajh fmkaùug fyd| wjia:djls'

3' taldldß fkdjQ ms<s;=re

“Tng fldfyduo” jeks idïm%odhsl m%Yakj,g ks¾udKd;aul ms<s;=re ,nd §ug yels úh hq;=h' túg tu ms<s;=re Ôú; ld,hu wehg Tnj u;lfha ;nd .ekSug WmldÍ jkq we;' tfiau fuu fndfyda m%Yakj,g bÈß Ôú; ld,fha§ oyia j;djla muK ms<s;=re §ug isÿjk nj u;l ;nd .kak'

4' wdl¾I”h YÍr p,k

Tfí fmkqfï we;s iq¿ wvqmdvq mjd uld oeóug wdl¾I”h body language tllg yels nj fidhd f.k we;' WodyrKhla f,i iDcq wlaIs iïnkaO;djla uÛska Tn weh flfrys wjOdkfhka isák nj yeÛ fõ'

5' yeÛSï weúiaiSu

fuh ;rula m%fõYfuka l< hq;= fohls' WodyrKhla f,i jqjukdfjkau wehf.a w; iam¾Y fldg th jer§ulska isÿ jQ nj yÛjñka iudj .ekSu jeks l%shd uÛska fuh isÿ l< yelsh' fuys § wef.a isf;a Tn flfrys jerÈ wdl,amhla we;s fkdùug m%fõYï jkak'

6' fyd| ijka fokakl= ùu

tlajr fyd| ijka fokakl= yd fyd| l;d lrkakl= jkafka flfiaoehs Tng yefÛkq we;' fyd| ijka fokakl= úh hq;af;a weh l;d lsÍug mgka .;a miqjhs' lsis úgl;a weh l;d lrk w;r;=r ueoafoka mksñka u;h bÈßm;a fkdlrkak' wef.a l;dj wjika jQ miqj Tfí woyia bÈßm;a lsÍug bjis,sjka; jkak' we;eï úg Tng bÈß Ôú;fha§ ;u u;h bÈßm;a lsÍug mjd fkd,efnk nj wlue;af;ka jqj o isys lrkak'

 

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