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,sx.slj tl;= ùul§ Tng;a oeä fõokd f.k fokjdo
tfykï fï ,smsh Tn fjkqfjka
,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ fõokd f.k fok Vaginismus frda. ;;a;ajh .ek oek .ksuq
fmr ,sx.sl in|;djl§ we;s jQ je/oaola" tfia;a ke;skï ñ:Hd u;" fmr wjia:djl ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ we;s jQ fõokdldÍ wm%ikak w;aoelSula" w;jrhlg ,la ù ;sîu" ffjoH mÍlaIKhl§ we;s jQ wiSre fõokd wdÈh fuu ìh we;sùug n,mdhs
,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ fujeks fõokdjla Tng we;akï iqÿiq ffjoHjreka ,jd mßlaId lrf.k thg iqÿiq m%;sldr .kak
ldka;dj ieuúgu ;u fõokdjka iÛjd f.k isàug W;aidy orhs' we;eï úg ,Êcdj yd ìh ksid ;u fõokdjka iudch bÈßfha fy<s lsÍug miqng fjhs' ta w;=ßka ,sx.sl fi!LH .egÆ ieÛùu úfYaIhs' fuh ,dxlsl iudcfha ldka;djka w;r mj;akd jerÈ wdl,am ksidfjka we;s jQ ;;a;ajhls'
is¿ñK ri÷k wm ksrka;rfhka ldka;d Tn fkdlshk Tfí .egÆ .ek Tnj oekqïj;a lrhs' fujr wmf.a idlÉPdj Vaginismus fyj;a ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha we;s jk fõokd ;;a;ajhla .ekhs' fï i|yd m%ij yd kdßfõo ms<sn| úfYaI{ ffjoH pdñkao udf;dg iuÛ l< idlÉPdj fufiah'
ldka;djkaf.a ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ we;s jk fõokd yd Bg n,mdk fya;= úYd, mrdihla olajd úysfohs' fuu Vaginismus frda. ;;a;ajh we;s ldka;djkag ,sx.sl ixi¾.h fõokdldÍ w;aoelSula jkq we;' we;eï úg ;u mjq,a Ôú;fhys wdrjq,a we;s ùugo fuh fya;=jla fjhs' ,sx.sl ixi¾.h wdrïNfha isg iq¿ fõokdjla we;s jk w;r we;euqkag oreKq f,i §¾> ld,hla tu fõokd f.k fohs'
tjeks ldka;djka iïmQ¾Kfhka ,sx.sl l%shdj,ska neyerj isàug o W;aidy orhs' fuh fndfyda ldka;djka w;r m%p,s; frda.S ;;a;ajhla' tfy;a th frda.hla o hkak ldka;djka ;=< wjfndaOhla oekqïj;andjhla ke;' Vaginismus frda. ;;a;ajh yg.kq ,nkafka idudkHfhka ldka;djla ,sx.sl ixi¾.hg ìhla we;s jQ úgh' tu ìh we;s ùug úúO fya;= n,mdhs' tu ldka;djka ;=< óg fmr ,sx.sl in|;djl§ we;s jQ je/oaola" tfia;a ke;skï ñ:Hd u;" fmr wjia:djl ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ we;s jQ fõokdldÍ wm%ikak we;aoelSula" w;jrhlg ,la ù ;sîu" ffjoH mÍlaIKhl§ we;s jQ wiSre fõokd wdÈh fuu ìh we;sùug n,mdhs'
tkï ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ we;s jk fõokdjla fyda lsishï ;;a;ajhla ksid fhdaks ud¾.h wdY%s; ;sfnk udxY fmaYS b;d ;Èka jeiS hhs' ke;skï fhdaksh wjg udxYfmaYS uÛska ,sx.sl tl;= ùug m%;sfrdaOhla we;s lrhs' tjeks wjia:djl ,sx.sl ixi¾.hg W;aidy oerejo tys§ oeä fõokdjla we;sfõ' fuu Vaginismus ;;a;ajfha uQ,sl frda. ,laIK kï fõokdjhs' tu fõokd yg .kafka udkislj we;s jkakd jQ ìh iuÛ fhdaks ud¾.h jeiS hdfuks'
,sx.sl ixi¾.hlg fyda fhdaks mÍlaIKhlg iQodkï jk úg udxYfmaYS ;Èka ixfldapkh jk ksid fhdaks ud¾.h jefihs' tneúka ixi¾.h fõokdldÍ fyda iïmQ¾Kfhka ixi¾.fha fh§ug fkdyels fõ' tu ksid ldka;djka ;u fhdaks ud¾.h l=vd hehs is;Sug fm,fUhs' fuh jerÈ u;hla' Vaginismus iys; ldka;djkaf.a fhdaks ud¾.h lsis úfgl l=vd ke;'
Vaginismus frda. ;;a;ajh ffjoH Wmfoia m%;sldr uÛska iïmQ¾Kfhka iqj l< yelsh' tys§ ,sx.sl ixi¾.hg ìh we;s ldka;djlg thg ìh fkdjkakg lshQ muKska th isÿ fkdfjhs' tu ksid ìh ke;s lsÍug l%udkql+,j udkisl m%;sldr l%u wdrïN lrhs' m%;sldr ;=<ska isÿ lrkqfha fhdaksh úYd, lsÍu fkdfjhs'
m<uqj fya;= ù we;s lreKq fidhd udkisl iqjhla frda.shdg ,nd Èh hq;=h' fY%daKs l=yrfha my< udxYfmaYS ixfldapk yd bys,a lsÍfï jHdhdï uÛska mqreÿ lsÍfuka l%u l%ufhka udxYfmaYS bys,aj ;nd .ekSug yqre lrhs'
thg úúO ffjoH l%u Wmfoia yd WmlrKo Wmfhda.S lr .kS' fuu wNHdij,ska fhdaks ud¾.fha m%udKh yd udxYfmaYS l%shdldß;ajh fyd¢ka isÿ lrhs' fuf,i ffjoH Wmfoia wkqj 90$ la muK ldka;djkag Vaginismus ;;a;ajfhka uq¿ukskau ñ§ug yels fõ'
óg wu;rj nr wvq lsÍu" jHdhdï lsÍu" udkisl tald.%;dj mj;ajd .ekSfï l%shdldrlïj, ksr; ùuo Vaginismus ;;a;ajfhka hï iykhla ,nd .ekSug WmldÍ fõ'
l,d;=rlska fhdaks ud¾.h l=vd ldka;djkao uqK .efihs' Tjqkg fhdaks ud¾.h úYd, lsÍug iq¿ ffY, l¾uhla isÿ lsÍug wjYH fõ'
;jo fhdaks ud¾.fha wdidok" tkafvdfug%sfhdaisia frda.h" .¾NdIfha fyda äïnfldaIj, widudkH;d" È,Sr wdidok jeks ;;a;ajhka ksido ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ fõokd we;sùug yelsh'
úfYaIfhka ,sx.sl ixi¾.fha§ fujeks fõokdjla Tng we;akï iqÿiq ffjoHjreka ,jd mßlaId lrf.k thg iqÿiq m%;sldr .kak' tuÛska we;s úh yels wjodkï ;;a;aj uÛ yrjd .ekSug yels fõ'